love or friendship?

'love is a friendship on fire' some people often say this because no matter what happens, love always starts with friendship. almost every relationship starts with friendship. but, what is really better, love or friendship? let us look at some facts that will help us decide on what would be better.

when you have friends, you can tell them about your problems. but, when you are lovers, i think you would just have another one to problem yourself about. but when you stay as friends, you might just regret the chance that you might be the best of lovers but you didn't take the risk. on the other hand if you become lovers, you might never be the same again. his/her attitude may change for the worst when you become lovers. this is based on experience.

another fact about this is that if you become lovers, you may lose a friend. but the good thing about this is that, you may lose a friend, but gain a lifetime relationship. when you are friends, you can joke around every time. but when you become lovers, you may not have those kinds of times again with him/her.


i guess, either way you want it, be it, you want to stay friends or become lovers, you would still know the meaning of sacrifice and hardships. no matter what happens you will still feel joy with the company of that person and the sorrow with that person. so, i will just leave it to the readers to know whether what is much more better. be lovers or stay as friends.

catch me if you can

this is a story about frank William abignale. he is a very famous criminal. he fraud checks all over the united states. he travelled the world for free and he cashed in over 4 million dollars of fraud checks. if you would watch the film, you will know that frank was not always the convict. he was once a good boy in school, one time even, he impersonated his teacher. imagine, he was only eighteen when he did this but he was very good in impersonating.he then started faking checks and starting cashing in the check frauds.

the main story was that he became what he was because of his parents. he started noticing his mother seeing the boss of his father, behind his fathers back. he ran away from his parents who were getting divorced. after that, he got a so called job, by job, meaning impersonate someone. he always write to his father. he tells him the things he is doing and the things he wants to do.

after some months being a nineteen year old person, he was caught by a detective. the detective is named Carl hanratty. he was a detective of the united states of America. they caught frank abignale in France. he was caught by hanratty and the french police.

after he was caught he was hired by the agency which caught him and worked for them until he died. this is the story which i liked from the moment i have seen the movie.



i should guess that the theme analysis for this movie is that it is all about frank William abignale. by the way, this movie is based on a true story.i couldn't find the moral of the story so, i guess what i would want to say is that crime doesn't pay. it really doesn't. because, i know that frank abignale was good at impersonating people. but in the end he was caught, which means, whatever lie you say, whatever lie you do however small or big that is, you will eventually get caught.

classification

studying is a hassle when you have terror teachers. this is one type of teacher, they are the teachers who, when your caught being a happy go lucky person, will reprimand you right then and there. they can give you tons of assignments and you cant do anything but do it or else they will fail you. then, there are those jolly teachers who you can joke around with. they are the teachers who will make you think that assignments are of no importance but if you don't pass, they will definitely fail you in there subject. then are the 'okay' teachers. these teachers are the ones who don't care if you don't do your assignments as long as you wont fail their exams. still some teachers who i call 'moody' teachers tend to act like they are one with your group and try to be, like a member of your peers. these teachers can be very fun to be with at times, but there are times also when they can be very serious and easily to get annoyed. even thought teachers are different in their own way, they still do a good job in giving their lessons to students and never fail to give out assignments to their students.

relationship..reason..

i love.. they love.. we love.. everybody loves..

he he he.. nothing, just popped into my head that what if nobody told anybody how they felt about them? this would be a very very sad place. that is why, i think, love shouldn't be kept from the person that you love.

who would agree to me that everybody, even the priests, at some point in time, loved somebody? i believe that no one is capable of not loving. nobody here can tell me that they have never loved before, even the people who say that they never had a boyfriend or a girlfriend. maybe, those people who are saying that is very secretive. i admit loving is full of heartaches and hardships but the thought of someone liking you for what you are is what love is all about, isn't it?

hardships, heartaches and problems occur when you love, nobody can have the perfect relationship. arguing with your boyfriend/girlfriend would be the way for your relationship to get stronger and even better. nobody can have a relationship without hardships and troubles.

i say to you now, whatever happens in life, happens for a reason. for example, there is a reason why you are reading this blog entry of mine, which sucks by the way, and a reason why later, after reading this, you would give a comment for this blog. the same goes with love, love has different ways of revealing itself. for example, there is a person that you met through text, you think it is just fun and games when suddenly he/she texts you saying 'i love you'. you think for about a day or two and you realize, just for fun, to pretend to love that person back. and after several days, weeks, months, you forget why you even agreed to being his/her lover. then, you tend to break up with the person and you end up hurting that person more and more with each passing day. this happens to you, having the thought of his/her condition, because you are the person to teach him/her how to let go. it is hard, yes, but God works in mysterious ways. nobody knows what He has planned for us.

a lot of people would say that they are the master of their lives and that no one can tell them otherwise. i tell those people now, when you begin to love someone, you tend to forget that you are master of your life. you will be like being hypnotized and sooner or later will fall so hard for the wrong person and, may i add, get hurt in the process.

again, this are just random thoughts inside my head. letting them out little by little. ha ha ha... fun for me...

never again

never again.. strong words.. even stronger if kept. i never thought that i would say this but i guess i am fed up with all the shit that is happening in my life. he he. never again will i be looking for someone to be mine. if they want, they will come. that is what i am sure of. you may call me what you want. call me boastful, but i believe that whoever is meant for you will come to you, no matter what happens.

the other day, when i was sitting alone on my bed, i realized that a lot can happen during my time here on earth. so, to make my dreams-to find my soul mate or whatever-a reality i asked for a sign from God. that sign was for someone to tell me the words i wanted to hear. nobody knows what that is so, whoever says that to me, will be the right one for me.

i will no longer be in a hurry in search for the right person for me. i would take my friend's advice. to not be in a hurry falling in love, it will come. that was what she said. it made me think, what if nobody ever said that? what if, the right person for me, is with another guy? what if..

what can really happen in the next years to come? i could die tomorrow or the day after that. i could be taken by aliens. (exaggerated :p). but it is true, nobody knows what can happen in the future. life is about making decisions and if you knew what your life is going to be, that isn't what you call a life. that is called being controlled. being controlled by your own self interest. he he. okay okay, i know i am not making any sense here but i hope you get my idea. he he.

blogging blogging blogging.. i got out of my topic.. didn't i? anyway, i just love writing about anything i can think of. he he.

P.S. nget, thanks.. :p

read it if you can

you have stolen my heart..

nobody knows this until you tell them. if you want them to know it, you should tell. if you don't, and it was still known by the person, it only means she wants it too. a heart, metaphorically speaking, is an organ inside the body which without, you cannot function. i think that is why you say 'i love you with all my heart' to the one you are in live with. i think that is why many people commit suicide, excluding the people who have bad problems but including the people who are heart broken because of having lost their love one.

'heart broken' now there is another thought to ponder on. how can you say you are heart broken? if this is true, you are dead, or you are in the brink of dying. it can never be true if you encounter a break up or if your love one leaves you for another. funny thought that a heart is broken.

technically it is not your heart which is broken, but your spirit. it is like what the people who commit suicide experience. 'losing the will to live' that is the feeling of the people who commit suicide. i admit, i have experienced it time and time again but never did i think of committing suicide. i haven't even thought of doing that. i just say to myself that 'what about my mom?'.

after this blog, i hope i don't get the idea i had the last time my girlfriend said something bad to me. i hope i never get that thought of ever again.

ha ha. just letting off some anger. if you read this, thanks. if you don't, good for you. hope no one ever knows what it feels like loving someone who is in a rush to throw you away. ha ha. got that from a song. but it is true. hope nobody experiences that.

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