relationship..reason..

i love.. they love.. we love.. everybody loves..

he he he.. nothing, just popped into my head that what if nobody told anybody how they felt about them? this would be a very very sad place. that is why, i think, love shouldn't be kept from the person that you love.

who would agree to me that everybody, even the priests, at some point in time, loved somebody? i believe that no one is capable of not loving. nobody here can tell me that they have never loved before, even the people who say that they never had a boyfriend or a girlfriend. maybe, those people who are saying that is very secretive. i admit loving is full of heartaches and hardships but the thought of someone liking you for what you are is what love is all about, isn't it?

hardships, heartaches and problems occur when you love, nobody can have the perfect relationship. arguing with your boyfriend/girlfriend would be the way for your relationship to get stronger and even better. nobody can have a relationship without hardships and troubles.

i say to you now, whatever happens in life, happens for a reason. for example, there is a reason why you are reading this blog entry of mine, which sucks by the way, and a reason why later, after reading this, you would give a comment for this blog. the same goes with love, love has different ways of revealing itself. for example, there is a person that you met through text, you think it is just fun and games when suddenly he/she texts you saying 'i love you'. you think for about a day or two and you realize, just for fun, to pretend to love that person back. and after several days, weeks, months, you forget why you even agreed to being his/her lover. then, you tend to break up with the person and you end up hurting that person more and more with each passing day. this happens to you, having the thought of his/her condition, because you are the person to teach him/her how to let go. it is hard, yes, but God works in mysterious ways. nobody knows what He has planned for us.

a lot of people would say that they are the master of their lives and that no one can tell them otherwise. i tell those people now, when you begin to love someone, you tend to forget that you are master of your life. you will be like being hypnotized and sooner or later will fall so hard for the wrong person and, may i add, get hurt in the process.

again, this are just random thoughts inside my head. letting them out little by little. ha ha ha... fun for me...