love or friendship?

'love is a friendship on fire' some people often say this because no matter what happens, love always starts with friendship. almost every relationship starts with friendship. but, what is really better, love or friendship? let us look at some facts that will help us decide on what would be better.

when you have friends, you can tell them about your problems. but, when you are lovers, i think you would just have another one to problem yourself about. but when you stay as friends, you might just regret the chance that you might be the best of lovers but you didn't take the risk. on the other hand if you become lovers, you might never be the same again. his/her attitude may change for the worst when you become lovers. this is based on experience.

another fact about this is that if you become lovers, you may lose a friend. but the good thing about this is that, you may lose a friend, but gain a lifetime relationship. when you are friends, you can joke around every time. but when you become lovers, you may not have those kinds of times again with him/her.


i guess, either way you want it, be it, you want to stay friends or become lovers, you would still know the meaning of sacrifice and hardships. no matter what happens you will still feel joy with the company of that person and the sorrow with that person. so, i will just leave it to the readers to know whether what is much more better. be lovers or stay as friends.